I’ve discovered a secret power, it’s the art of saying NO

I’m listening to my inner voice, demanding quid pro quo

I’m very much enjoying it, it’s making me feel good

Sort of braver and more honest, like I’ve entered adulthood

 

Before, if asked a favour, I didn’t hesitate

I’d say 'yes' immediately, my jobs would have to wait

I got in lots of muddles, so busy all the time

Doing other’s bidding – never doing mine

 

But people take advantage when you always say 'yes'

It seems the more you do, they respect you even less

They seem to think your niceness is a sign of being weak

Perhaps it’s human nature to trample on the meek

 

‘No’ felt like rejection to a loved-one or a friend

It somehow felt too rude and I thought I might offend

I’m practising this power now, it’s helping me to grow

‘No’ is my protection – I wield the shield of NO!

 

Changing habits of a lifetime, I’m strong and stand my ground

If I don’t want to do something, I don’t feel duty bound

No need to make excuses, honesty is my ploy

Just say 'I can’t be bothered', no need for being coy

 

Are you a people pleaser? Do you feel you’re being used?

It’s not too late to change your ways, requests can be refused

Face up to confrontation but don’t get in dispute

People will respect you when they see you’re resolute

 

It’s a journey of empowerment, you always have a choice

Just follow your own instinct, heed your inner voice

It’s a great philosophy, go on, give it a go

Next time you’re asked a favour, just say 'NO'!